How dressing up every day can change your life for the better.
We all get dressed everyday (well most days) , but how would life be if we choose to dress up ?
This week's list is celebrating folks who show up and dress up. All demonstrating in different ways and across the globe the same positive effects.
Mollie Kaye - TED TALK - Is the cure for loneliness hiding in your closet?
Mollie Kaye engages with strangers through unique style and believes this fosters connections, community, and a sense of belonging.
It began as each Tuesday she would ditch her "Middle Aged Mum Uniform" and dress up in a unique style to go about her day. She found people noticed and talked to her . Mollie says this transformed her life and her closet for the better. Her style is pin sharp, her sense of colour sublime alongside her old school elegance it was no surprise to me to hear that the new look sparked conversations and connections with strangers.
Psychologists have proved that talking to strangers can combat social isolation and improve mental well-being, combating isolation that can lead to depression and even dementia. She shares her experience, insights and gives tips on dressing to make a difference in a this powerful Ted Talk.
In 2 months, it’s had almost 600K views. If you watch I guarantee it will touch your heart.
Positive Vibes - "Life is short, why not have a good time "
Aki and Kochi Kim have become an internet sensation, this senior couple have over 500K followers who are following their stylish outfits and joyful videos. Their quick and simple Reels show you don’t have to spend ages overthinking how you present yourself on Reels or Posts. Just being happy and consistent is everything. Oh and to have your own unique style is also very helpful.
To get a glimpse and listen to their charming story watch this short film on You Tube
Twin Dressing - Rosey and Kathy - "we're so similar it's creepy "
Historically twins will always attract attention, although you don't have to be a twin to twin dress .
Twins Rosey and Kathy caught the headlines with their distinctive looks and twin lifestyles - as well as twin dressing. These twins , now in their 70th year have dressed identically for the last 24 , which began after they separated from their partners. They now live next door to each other and in separate homes that are dressed similarly in shared colours and style.
Watch the twins chatting on the sofa at This Morning on You Tube
Twin Couple Dressing - Tsuyoshi & Tomi - ".... it’s not just about coordinating our clothes. We try to choose outfits that complement our surroundings.” Tsuyoshi - The Guardian
This couple - AKA Bon and Pon has prompted over 900K followers to press the follow button on Instagram, and rightly so.
Coordinating outfits since 2016 , they have a light hearted approach but take couple dressing very seriously. They first met 44 years ago, and have a shared love of fashion . The unparalleled coordination of outfits shows their complete sense of harmony, evident in every post.
In 2018 they launched a line of clothing for a Japanese Department store, at that time most of thieir outfits were from Uniqlo.
Find them on Instagram BonPon51 on Instagram
Read story with accompanying on point pictures from Refinery29 .
Vintage Tourists - Lara and Emma
Can you imagine how it would feel to become a Vintage Tourist ? Dressed in vintage style, visiting historic places, and going to vintage teashops and festivals ?
These two gals do just that. If you spot Lara and Emma out, you might think you have time-traveled back to the 1930s or 40s. I follow Lara and Emma on their journeys across the country and occasionally abroad on Instagram to save their destinations for future trips and to see their outfits.
You can find them on social media at
My story
I don't have a particularly large wardrobe of clothes, but last year I realized that 90% of it wasn't being worn. Trapped in a comfort zone of mostly wearing leggings and cozy jumpers each day, I challenged myself to wear more of the clothes hiding in my wardrobe gathering dust or moths!
I made myself accountable - posting daily on Instagram Stories or a Reel.
Dressing up as if I was going somewhere nice, regardless of what my plans were for the day .
It worked. I rediscovered my love of putting outfits together- lost since my early 20’s and I felt generally happier .
After Christmas I slowed down with the social media postings reflected.
However the pressure of posting on social media had turned negative as I ran out of inspiration on how to present myself each day a on a Reel and felt stories had become repetitive and boring . The positves from positng on social media were similar to those described by Mollie Kaye. I met new people, had great conversations and on the days when I really didn't feel like dressing up, doing so gave the most benefit.
Until next week ,
Cheerio xxx
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